Fiona
I'd heard the name Simon Chesters before I met him. Such was his presence and reputation in Wirral, Cheshire and Liverpool!

When I finally met him, I was surprised to see him playing the guitar, not the pan pipes (I had got him mixed up with Simon Bernard-Smith, who I also had heard of, and was at a different Anglican church in Chester!). When I quizzed him on why he was playing the guitar and not the pan pipes, he appeared maybe slightly flummoxed, but took it in really good grace. Boy, did I feel stupid! So, our first meeting was awkward, but he never held it against me during the time I knew him. Though I would, now in hindsight, have LOVED to have seen Simon C playing the pan pipes. What talent he had!

Such was his 'inappropriate jocularity', I got to know a fun loving, but serious Christian giant. In fact one Christingle service at church, he, my husband and I, among others, were the last to take our places to make Christingles. We were seated around the one table on the dais, on 'display', and following verbal instruction on assembling the Christingles when the instruction to 'take the orange' came, our table heard a low interjection of "President!" of which the rest of us on the table were falling about in fits of giggles, such was Simon's brilliantly inappropriate timing of political jokes. The rest of the church, when looking at us up at the front, could only imagine what Simon might have done or said.

Although I hadn't seen Simon since late 2019, having moved away, I know he will be missed dearly by all who knew him. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Jeremy Tear, Colleague
I have known Simon for over 20 years, firstly as Ministry Development Adviser in Chester Diocese where I benefited from his skills and insights on the Chester Leadership Development Programme, and latterly in Liverpool Diocese where he was my work consultant. He was a kind, thoughtful, caring and wise priest who I will miss much, especially his humour! It was a privilege to attend his Service of Thanksgiving. With prayers for all his family, friends and colleagues. May Simon rest in peace and rise in glory.

Trish Cope, Colleague
Simon was an amazing teacher and colleague. I remember entertaining and amusing training sessions (for Reader and later on ordained ministry) which always prompted me to reflect on and question faith and worship. He was also approachable and empathetic. I - like others - remember the story of BAP's comment on "inappropriate jocularity" along with an imaginative dramatisation of the Lord's Prayer - spoken between a believer and God. I learned a great deal from Simon and was greatly encouraged by him. His passing is a very big loss to the diocese - though that is only a fraction of the sense of loss his family will be experiencing now and into the future.

Heather Kemball, Colleague
It has been such a privilege to be able to share in the service online, as I was at another funeral last Friday. What a wonderful, honest, warm expression of grief, love and thankfulness. As so many have said, he was such a kind, gentle, encouraging and supportive person. I valued his wisdom and empathy as someone newly in charge of a parish. He never made me feel foolish with any of my questions. I am so sorry to hear of the inner struggles he had. So many of us have these struggles too, and I am very grateful that these were not hidden or ignored but honestly shown. I have no doubt that he is in God's presence and at peace. I pray especially for his family and friends in the months and years ahead. Thank you again for sharing the service.

Sandra Fletcher, Ordinand and curate: sending prayers and condolences.

Revd Anne-Marie Naylor: sending prayers and condolences.

Andrew Bevington, Discernment process
In what can be a very intense process Revd Simon made me laugh. I walked with him as a potential ordinand. When trying to figure out a discernment journey, with a rather drowning ordinand, Simon recounted that, ‘I kept throwing him a life belt…. and he kept throwing it back at me!’ It was such a great moment, but as ever, behind this comedy lay the deeper sense of ‘being’ and ‘listening’ together. No ‘right answers or trick questions was his backdrop. Simon’s gentle care and unbounded love for Christ and others was the most inspiring part of our brief time together. My heart is full and empty and the same time. Fr. Richard Rohr reminds me that it’s just in this supernatural mystery that God does His best work, somewhere between the ‘wonder and the suffering’. I rejoice in that confidence that God is with us, but at this moment, I just miss him and weep for the pain his family must be enduring.

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Revd Beth Glover, Colleague and friend
I was so shocked and saddened to hear of Simons death.
I have known Simon for over 30 years in various contexts.
My parish (at St Mary's Eastham) still speak so highly of him as he help guide our parish through a difficult interregnum, with passion, Godliness and love.
Everything he did was with joy and laughter, compassion and common sense.
Whether it be teaching, inspiring, FFM, vocations ministry, Diocesan meetings, I came away just a bit more complete than before.
A true wordsmith, his passion for the priesthood of all believers, his vitality, energy and strength made him a great tree under people could shelter, or rest on the branches or blossom and grow fruit.
The seeds have and will take root and be his living legacy to us.
The remarkable poem, When Great Trees Fall (Maya Angelou) speaks of this deeply.
Simon, you are loved and beloved, we hold all the family in our prayers and hearts, and give thanks for the truly remarkable person you were and are, to so many of us. Risen in Glory, surrounded by love.

Lindsay, Friend
Simon, the image of you in my mind is of your wonderful smile, encouraging words. Thank you for your interest in each of us individually, taking time to care and listen. We miss you.

Alan Dawson,
Simon was curate at my parents' church, St Oswald's, Bidston.
Words are just not enough to express my admiration for Simon.
Laughter through his humour in sermons at St Oswald's Church. Inspired and guided though the same.
Taught how to put together lighting and sound systems for youth initiative Holy Disorder. This went on to the creation of Heart Cafe though Youth Voice.
Inspired in many ways as Simon taught on the Foundations For Ministry course. Simon's sermon with just Eva Cassidy's, Somewhere Over The Rainbow and an Overhead Projector / PowerPoint presentation.
Spiritual guidance and Words of Wisdom. Memories carried and passed on to this day.
My thanks for your help, guidance, inspiration, prayers and wise counsel.
A giant amongst the people of faith. My thanks will continue always.
I offer my prayers to Liz, all the family, all who know Simon.

Colleague,
You have been a gentle guide. A leader beside me with humour and kindness, exceptionally gifted, experienced and wise. Missing you.

Colleague
Simon you radiated gentleness. Forever in our hearts. Forever missed. Forever grateful we met.

Colleague
My memory is of Simon playing 'Blessed be Your Name' on his guitar. His booming voice filling the room.

Colleague
Such a big character which leaves a big gap. May you find peace and healing in heaven.

Claire Wilson, Colleague and teacher
I will never be able to watch many TV programmes, like The Good Place, or listen to certain lyrics without hearing Simon’s take on what it says about us, life and God. Simon was an amazing communicator, who made faith relevant and real. His waistcoats and smile were so memorable as was his readiness to encourage with humour and humility. My last memory of him was serving cross sector chaplains pizza and pudding at Church House. He was looking for ways of supporting us and making sure we didn’t feel out on a limb.

Vivienne Mitchell, Liverpool Diocese
Sharing in the deep warmth, love, kindness and care, meeting together in the midst of grief and feeling at Simon's memorial service. Simon was such an unendingly generous and inspiring man, humble beyond words ... and never far away from a smile and a jolly joke.

I will always be thankful for his patience, encouragement and compassionate care during my training and journey of discernment, particularly when faced with my own unexpected life events along the way.
Privileged and blessed to have known Simon, Powerpoint guru and ... actually ... astonishingly good human being who could play a good tune.

Love and prayers for Simon's family and friends in their sorrow and sadness, may the light of hope ever lead on through the darkness, knowing that Simon is held forever in the loving arms of his Lord and Saviour.

Hana Amner, Colleague and Friend
Being part of the St Marks Church family for 5 years as ordinand and curate, Simon was as a great encourager to me. I went to him with big theological questions and when I had a wobble or two. He was always willing to take time to listen and share endless wisdom. When I was discerning whether to date my now husband, I went to Simon and he gave me great advice and so have my lovely marriage to thank him for.

I loved joining Simon in leading musical worship and learning from him, he had an ordinand at the time in Liverpool diocese who had written a children’s song called “building Gods kingdom here, brick by brick” and introduced us to it as a church. I will always think of Simon when that song comes to mind, he encouraged people, rejoiced in their gifts, shared a lot of his time and I was so grateful to spend time with him and learn from him.

Simon showed me the importance of being honest when people ask how you are. Thankful that he made this sometimes strange western Christian culture, feel more human and therefore more sacred.

Love you Simon, I imagine you in the heaven with the saints jamming on your guitar and feeling at total peace x

Kate Johnston, Liverpool Diocese
I wouldn't be where I am today without Simon's unwavering, wholehearted support. He championed those who were most vulnerable and I was so thankful for his guidance through the discernment process. What a God filled, inspirational and wonderful human being. Thank you Simon for all you gave. Sending my heart felt condolences to his family.

Jen Biggs,
Whenever I think of Simon I can't ever imagine him with his clerical collar in properly, he always had the white bit hanging down... as if he had thought of something part way through dressing and had simply not returned to the task.

There are a few of us who had recently come off second panel and had been graciously transformed into ordinands ... we had all spoken to you recently and have all said that had we detected any tone or similar out of the ordinary we could take what had happened. Such a loss to the life and vocations of all who search to find God's Gifting on their life. They will never roll their eyes and groan at your bad jokes ... or see your tell-tale memes in PowerPoint. Good Bye Simon, forever missed. Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory

Alan Jenkins, Wycliffe Hall
Shocked and saddened to learn of Simon's death. But remembered with affection as someone invariably kind and hugely able. Thank you for the provision of the online service. Love to Liz, Matthew, Alex and David, with many congratulations to Matthew, Alex and David for their moving and heartfelt tributes, beautifully written and well delivered.

Corrine Brixton, Wycliffe Hall 1992-1995
I will always remember Simon as having an incredibly able mind and a great sense of humour (with a big and very infectious laugh). He was part of the Schools cohort doing the BA in theology who all got Oxford firsts in his year, causing the college principal great joy! He was so great to know at Wycliffe, and I was always so grateful in subsequent years to hear the annual family news in the Chesters' Christmas letter. I would share all my film recommendations in my letter, and he would share his latest musical discoveries in theirs, although I had never heard of any of them! His own musical talents served us well at college, and were often also on show at the Wycliffe Christmas bash, with the college band (Herman and the Neutics) doing their own cover versions of popular hits (e.g. "I don't like Sundays"). Simon brought so much to our college life.

But the Lord has clearly used him greatly in so many different ways in the years since we were all together at Wycliffe. He will always be so fondly remembered.

Revd Laura Leatherbarrow
You were Actually! One of the best, someone who believed in me supported me and was there from the start. You are the best of us. I’m so sorry this has happened. May God's love surround your family, at this time, you are with God, now, and Simon thank you for being you, for your belief over the years and being there when many turned away. Rest in peace my friend, and rise in glory.

William Wilson, Simon was a friend and priest at our marriage
Crazy music, approachable and relatable. Honest and capable.

Revd Sue Thomas, Liverpool Diocese
Simon was enthusiastic, larger than life and a people person whose deep faith was reflected in his love and care for everyone he met. He became our DDO in Liverpool diocese as I neared the completion of my training. He was so encouraging. He was the first person to call me “ Rev Sue Thomas” and whilst it’s many years since I saw him he made a deep and lasting impression on me. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.

Simon and Jane Arnold-Round, St Mary's Church and School
Jane and I first met Simon more than forty years ago at the CYFA youth group at St. Mary's Upton. Simon and I were also at the same school. I think he was two years ahead of me. I remember Simon as an approachable person who was willing to share friendship with others. This was so exceptional for the teenagers that we were when even two years difference could feel like a very wide gap. I also remember his love of music and his inspiring depth of knowledge of musicians and their work, in an era before the internet.
I met up again with Simon after we had both graduated from university and were in our early careers. Simon was driving a company Vauxhall Cavalier and working for ICL computers which seemed a remarkable development for a Cambridge classicist.

Our careers have taken Jane and myself away from the Wirral and we have not seen Simon and his wife for far too many years but I have tracked his work in the church over the years. It is so easy to forget so many people that we meet in our lives but Simon was a remarkable man and someone who left a lasting impression on everyone that he met. Rest in peace Simon.

Condolences from Gail Fulbrook, Reader

Kim Stanley, Diocese of Liverpool
Simon and I were colleagues for 10 years as staff for Liverpool Diocese. Latterly, my husband and I saw him occasionally when we worshipped with family at St Mark's Saltney, and he led the service of baptism for our grandson. When we were there, he always sought us out so we could catch up, which was so typical of him. It has been a real honour and privilege to have known him. He was kind, thoughtful, warm, caring, enthusiastic, full of humour, a brilliant musician and his presence lit up the room. We also shared an interest in IT and palindromic dates.Simon was so talented and had so many gifts which he shared with us all - such a loss. Love and many prayers for his family and friends.

Julie Ellison, Reader
If I hadn't had the encouragement, humility, humour and down to earth-ness of Simon I think I wouldn't have completed the Reader course. He was inspiring and his bright communication skills -legendary.
As many have written - he saw the potential in all of us - and was always kind and so positive.
They broke the mould when he was made. A rare and beautiful man.
May his family and those closest to him be held especially tightly as they walk through their grief - may they know much comfort and courage.

Joanna Cox, C of E Adult Education Networks
I have very positive happy memories of Simon. He had such an obvious enthusiasm for finding ways to encourage and support all members of the church in their growth and development.

Simon was a highly valued member of the network of diocesan adult educators across the C of E, and he contributed, ideas and perspectives along with friendship, a listening ear and ready wit. I was particularly pleased once when Simon invited me to work with him on a Chester diocesan lay conference. I still remember the pleasure of working alongside him in a creative process of planning and presenting that was genuinely collaborative.

Simon's death is such a sadness. "Any man's death diminishes [each of us]", and my thoughts and prayers are with his family and all in Chester diocese who will sense being diminished by the loss of Simon and his ministry.

Revd Alex Sanders, Colleague
I remain grateful for his lively and knowledgeable teaching, and particularly for his genuine interest in, and care for, everyone whose paths he crossed. I was surprised - and again grateful - when he answered the phone in Church House a couple of years ago, remembered me, and helped sort out PTO for me in a different country. He is now at peace and with God, and my prayers go out to his family, friends and close colleagues in their grief.

Martin Bancroft, Diocese of Chester
Simon was my principal Course Tutor on my Foundations for Ministry course. In my opinion, he was an excellent and caring tutor, who took great care of us as students, but also stretched us and hugely enhanced our understanding of both Christianity and the Church of England. He led us in worship in a joyful and tuneful manner, and was also extremely kind to my wife Sallie, who was obliged to drive me to the teaching sessions as l do not drive. He allowed her to work in a separate room at Hale Parish church whilst l had my sessions, and allowed her to share our coffee break times. He was a tough and exacting interviewer, but also wholly fair and considerate when l was interviewed for LLM training. I always found him to be helpful and encouraging, as well as well informed and knowledgeable. He also gave excellent practical advice on the OWLs course, as part of a double act with Revd Jenny Bridgman, which was useful to me as l began my ministry as an LLM at St Michael's Macclesfield. Both my wife and l were shocked and saddened by the news of his death, and believe this event to be a great loss to his family and Chester Diocese. May he rest in peace and rise in Glory.

Lynn Caudwell, Colleague
As a new incumbent who was also new to the diocese, Simon was one of the most accessible members of the leadership team and helped me to feel part of things very quickly. He was encouraging, reassuring and always prompt in his replies. I did not know him for very long but I will miss his wise presence and counsel. He will be missed by many.

Dan Pattimore,
When I moved to Runcorn in 2003 our ministry briefly overlapped at St. John's Weston.
Simon was simply a lovely godly man. He was a joy to work with.

Jon Scamman, CPAS
Simon had a long and fruitful relationship with CPAS, having served on staff as a regional rep, and more recently as a trustee. When I joined CPAS as the new CEO, I found Simon to be unfailingly warm, attentive, supportive, and missional. His lively sense of humour brightened our council meetings, and his godly wisdom was invaluable in steering our work. I was grateful for his care for me personally, and count it a privilege to have known him.

Revd Emma Speake, Colleague
Oh Simon… you were just one of those special people who was genuinely wise, kind and compassionate. You stood for all that is good in the church and the world, - always looking for the potential in other and seeing it in even me. You always made me smile and I will miss you - which echoes how so many people will feel… because you were such a big part of the life of this diocese. You made a difference. Rest in peace my friend x

James Stonley, Family friend
I never knew Simon as well as others but he was in the same CYFA group at St Mary's Upton as my two sisters Clare and Louise. Simon was a key figure in mentoring and encouraging my sister Lou throughout her application and selection for ordination. I remember him speaking fondly of Lou at her funeral in 2020 at St Mary's just a few months short of her ordination. I'll always remember him recalling how he had to have quite a firm conversation with my sister telling her somewhat directly to stop being so flipping humble all of the flipping time. He always saw the good in people. Rest in peace Simon you are home. You fought the good fight, finished the race and most importantly you kept the faith.

Al Rodgers, St Mary's, Upton
Although I didn’t overlap with Simon in my time at St Mary’s, talking with people who did, it’s clear what a positive impression he made, still fondly remembered, as a young person growing up in the youth work here.
It’s equally clear that, even though it’s many years since Simon ‘graduated’ from St Mary’s, he has continued to touch so many lives in the various places he has served God in the years since.I personally am incredibly grateful to God for the support Simon has always given to me and the churches I have been part of, in his roles in the Ministry and Discernment teams.

Julian and Gill Buchanan, St Mary's Church, Upton, Wirral
In the early 1980s the thriving CYFA group had around seventy to eighty 14-18yr old kids, it was so big we divided them into groups, each with two adults leading and two 'junior leaders'. Gill and I (young newly weds from Anfield, Liverpool) led one of the groups and we got to know 'Si' well as he was in our group, and very committed. Being involved was a rich and demanding experience, the team delivered well grounded biblical and practical teaching combined with a 'full on' social programme. We had around a dozen leaders all much respected - including the impressive Peter and Miranda Harris at the helm.

The wider CYFA experience no doubt would have shaped the foundation of Simon's faith. The time at St Mary's and in CYFA proved formative to us too.

We have fond memories of Simon, and remember him as an extremely bright, humble, warm, open, thoughtful, sometimes intense and earnest young lad.

I lost touch when he left to go to university, but remember him well. A young man we respected and thought highly of.

We emigrated to Aotearoa New Zealand in 2011, and had no further contact, but curiously when on a remote small boat trip in Rotorua in 2023, the skipper named Phil hearing our Scouse accent asks where are we from, then tells us he knows Liverpool and has visited West Kirby (where we lived) to see a great friend who lives there. His friend is Mark Chesters. Oh we knew a guy called Simon Chesters we say, I wonder if they are related? Phil the skipper is unsure but says his mate's brother is a vicar - surely it must Simon we thought???

I took the opportunity to search for Simon and found an email simon.chesters@chester.anglican.org so I emailed him to rekindle our fond shared memories and check out the possible coincidence with him. Unfortunately, I never heard back from Simon.

But now three years later I hear Simon has passed, so very sad, I still see Simon as that teenager in CYFA, and in some ways we never change, we just learn to adapt, but deep down we are the same person at the core.

I hope I can catch up with Simon again properly when we are both on the other side.

Love and care to all those close to him who have been so deeply affected by his passing.

Julian & Gill Buchanan
Waikanae Beach, Wellington
Aotearoa, New Zealand

Malcolm and Jo Chamberlain,
Malcolm and Simon were ordinands together at Wycliffe Hall.

Rachel Martin, Liverpool Diocese
Simon was an inspirational teacher for my husband and me, on the All Saints Reader Training course. When our incumbent died suddenly, just before licensing, there was a chance that we wouldn't be recommended for licensing, but Simon Chesters made sure that we were; he saw our potential. For this I will always be grateful, and extend my deepest sympathy to his family and friends and this sad time.

Revd Heidi Munn, Colleague
Simon's untimely passing is incredibly sad. His warm welcome when my husband and I moved to Chester Diocese in 2024 was a huge encouragement. Simon enabled and enriched many church leaders to shine brightly for Jesus. I will never forget his particular skill of sharing great wisdom with gentle humour. May Simon now rest in peace and rise in glory.

RM
I valued Simon's insights in his sessions training Licensed Lay Ministers - he was bright (in various senses), aware and gentle. His ministry was appreciated. also found his friendship in handling and moving the diocese on in its safeguarding awareness. As a survivor I attended the first safeguarding services and in a meal in the pub before he invited me to join him at their table and listened to my story, an appreciation and impetus I then also found in training sessions I helped to lead for the Chester team. I will miss him very much and so will the diocese!

Rev Fran Nunn, Simon was my DDO in Liverpool Diocese

Helen Whitelegg, Reader
I was so shocked and saddened by the news of Simon's death. I will never forget his many kindnesses to me over the years, not least on the occasion of my licensing as Reader in 2022 when my vicar was delayed and possibly wouldn't make the service at Chester Cathedral at all because of the bridge works taking place on the M56. As the service was beginning, and my vicar and party nowhere in sight, Simon quietly came alongside me and said "don't worry Helen, if Emma doesn't get here in time, I'll give you your scarf". It was typical of Simon's care and attention that he took notice to make sure I was assured that my welfare was taken into account. I will miss him enormously in my journey in faith. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Chris Gascoigne, Foundations for Ministry
Simon was a teacher and minister dedicated to developing others for service in God’s Kingdom. He had both a depth and breadth of knowledge and experience which we all could benefit from from. Through his ministry he laid a platform for many others to stand on.

Jon Shepard, School Friend
Simon and I were friends at Birkenhead School in the 70s and 80s. We lost touch when I moved away from the Wirral, but his mum and mine remained very close friends. When my dad died in 2013, my mum asked Simon to officiate at his funeral, which he did with great charm and wisdom. Mum died last year, and Simon - along with David Vestergaard at mum's church, St Andrew's - officiated at her cremation and memorial service. By then, forty years separated us from the schoolboys we'd first known each other as, and I was struck by the grace, good humour and kindness Simon brought to bear during a difficult time. I was very glad that we were back in touch, and so very sad to hear of his untimely death. It's clear from the many tributes here that he was a remarkable man who touched the lives of many of us. He's gone before his time, and the world is poorer for his passing.

Beth Gardner, Succeeded Simon as incumbent, Weston Runcorn
Simon was so helpful and encouraging when I arrived in Weston. He met with me to share his experience and knowledge - so generous with his time and encouragement. It was a delight to follow him, the villagers without exception spoke highly of him. ( it turned out to be a challenging time with national attention on the ICI gas incident which he handled so well) His gracious personality had enabled new initiatives to be embraced by the church family. What a gift to Weston. Many will be forever grateful to God that Simon and his family were called to this ministry . Sincere condolences to Liz and family

Revd Giselle Rusted, Colleague
I met Simon when I did Foundations For Ministry 25 plus years ago. I have lost count. It was Simon who inspired be to become a Reader and have vivid memories of attending training led by him at Hartford. I even went for interview at the Liverpool Diocese and Simon was on the interview panel. Our paths have continually crossed through out the years. I also met up with him a couple of times as Church house to seek vocational advice which was always very helpful. I last saw Simon at Foxhill for a Mission and Strategy day at Foxhill. He will be greatly missed and its hard to imagine that his presence will not longer be there Chester.

Thank you for all that Simon has given to the various Dioceses he has been in. For his humour, his patience and for his contribution to all those who have received training and support from him. He has left a big Simon shaped whole in the Diocese. Thank you especially for all the help and support that I have received from Simon. Rest Eternal, let light perpetual shine. Slip away on the ebb tide and may you find peace and rest.

Revd Sue FuIford, Liverpool Diocese
I first met Simon when he came to deliver a training course in Liverpool. I was facilitating the course but he was so good I took notes. I still have them. Our paths regularly crossed after that. It was always a joy to be in his company. Simon was warm and generous - and a great encourager. I was so sad when I heard the news. He will be missed greatly by so many people. I send my love to Simon's family and friends and I am holding you all in my prayers.

Pauline Clarke, Foundations for Ministry, Occasional Worship Leader
I first met Simon five years ago when I was encouraged by my vicar to do the Foundations for Ministry Course. I remember the induction day at Church House; I was so nervous as it was a big step forward for me. Simon was there to set us all on the right track. I remember thinking, what a lovely man; he made you feel at ease, he made you feel that you really can achieve this and very soon my anxieties dispersed.

Simon portrayed a happy, vibrant personality; full of life and enthusiasm. He had a brilliant voice and expressive delivery for lecturing and always seemed to make it sounds so interesting. It's one thing knowing about and understanding a subject, but it's a totally different matter to be able to teach and deliver your knowledge in a way that grabs your students interest and attention. Simon could do that, he grabbed your attention and made you want to learn more.

Simon was there again at the Lay Conference shortly after Foundations had finished. Again he delivered several lectures and services there; always grabbing your attention and sparking your interest.

I met Simon again when I did the OWLS Course in the autumn of 2024. Along with Jenny, Simon lead another brilliant course. He was so approachable, so interested in what you had to say, so supportive and very encouraging.

I was deeply saddened when I heard that Simon had died; it seemed quite surreal that such a lovely, inspiritional, brilliant man had passed away; as I'm sure many people across the diocese will be feeling at this sad time. He will be greatly missed for his encouraging tutoring, his ministries, and other work within the diocese by so many and especially Jenny who worked closely with Simon and Jane, his secretary.

I would like to take this opportunity to offer my condolences to Simons family, personal friends, and all his colleagues; he was a remarkable man who will be sorely missed by all. May Simon rest in peace now.
Good Night, God Bless.

Carole Carridge,
Simon was our tutor for the OWLs course.

Mike Smith, fellow cleric
Simon and I were ordained together in 1995. We both had Bidston connections - he was to be their curate, and I had been a Lay Worker there prior to ordination training. We worked closely together during his first stint on the diocesan team developing the old “Doorway” discipleship course, and our paths often crossed happily over the years. Neither of us could abide dull clerical shirts! We had a lovely catchup when he was preaching at a church I was visiting on sabbatical only a few months ago. Dreadfully sad that he has left us, but "we are confident" that he is now "away from the body and at home with the Lord" (2 Corinthians 5.8).

Margaret Kitchen, Pastoral Worker training
Thank you Simon for your wonderful and kind supportive presence to all who met you. You are, and will always be, much loved and valued. My thoughts and prayers are for your wife, children and family. May they be upheld through their grief and loss. Prayers for all your Diocesan colleagues who equally feel your missing presence daily. May you rest in peace and rise in glory 🙏✝️

David Lang, St Mary's Upton 18+ group
I last saw Simon over 35 years ago, when I left the area and moved to Sussex. I nonetheless remember him fondly as a dear friend and Christian brother. I gave him a lift home from a weekend in North Wales, and he gave me a lift sometimes, such as to church just after the Berlin Wall was breached. I remember him saying the Americans were gobsmacked! I'm so sorry I never saw him again after I moved away, and I look forward to meeting him again and having at least one more hug.

David and Ruth Callaghan, St Mary's Upton
Simon helped us with holiday clubs at St Mary's Upton Centre after he finished his degree. We remember him with very happy memories and are truly saddened by his death. Thank you Simon for all you have done for so many people and we are really grateful to have known you even though it was quite a time ago, we remember you with affection and respect.

Simon Garland, friend
My tribute will be unusual because it does not come from a person of faith. I first met Si (and to everyone back then he was only known as Si) when we were about fourteen years old at St Mary’s Church in Upton, Wirral. I was trying to make sense of the world and was invited there by a mutual friend who’d found answers in Christianity. Quickly it struck me that Si was the leader of that adolescent pack - clever, charismatic, very dry-witted and, most excitingly, a phenomenally good guitarist.

But a maturity beyond his years is what strikes me now with hindsight. I rarely asked a contentious question, but when I did my doubts weren’t met with childish condescension or derision. He’d hear me out and provide a perfectly reasonable response from a position of rock solid faith. By comparison, the most I could do to string a sentence together was to misquote The Young Ones. We were teenagers and this was the 80s.

We were also musicians. I’m a drummer. Someone once said that college holidays were when Si and I would meet up after the evening service, go into a huddle and discuss bands that nobody else had heard of. I’d mention Laurie Anderson and he’d reference Adrian Belew’s solo on Sharkey’s Day. I’d bring up the EG record label and he’d lament how Roger Eno was never respected as anything more than Brian’s brother. It was that sort of obscurantist game of poker. Not really eclectic one-upmanship, more a shared passion for the musically weird.

In time I decided that St Mary’s was not for me and I stopped attending, so we lost touch. But I was always curious to hear of Si’s ongoing adventures.

Some of these details may be inaccurate, but this is what the rumour mill churned up and I’m still of a mind to believe them. He’d graduated from Cambridge and went into IT. However, his calling drew him to study for the clergy at Oxford. So am I correct that he gained a First from each of Oxford and Cambridge? While still being fine company? And able to play guitar like a man who’d sold his soul to the other side? I was - and remain - in awe.

The story went that despite the dizzying offers by the CofE’s hierarchy for such a promising graduate, Si wished to spend his curate years in one of the more deprived estates on our home turf. If true, it would have been perfectly in character.

Every now and again, I’d google him to see if he was a bishop yet. This was how I discovered that he was on the local news representing the residents of the Cheshire village of Weston during a toxic gas contamination scandal. Some time in the early 1990s I hired a rehearsal studio in Liverpool and invited some pals to jam. Our mutual friend brought Si along, which pleased me enormously. I’d not seen him for years. In light of his passing, the memory of that afternoon’s fun and improvisation, gives me great comfort.

We last met over twenty years ago outside Mothercare, both buying nappies. His humour was still pin sharp. Now on their third child, it was the first time I ever heard a parent use the word “outnumbered.” Si was also still joyous that Badly Drawn Boy had won the Mercury Prize. He’d not been able to get to any gigs that year, but had taken the kids to see The Tweenies Live. “Their PA was first class!”

And he was still getting calls from newly betrothed couples who’d watched the news hoping to be married by “the vicar with the guitar.”

I’d just put the last of my drum kit into the back of the car after playing at a birthday party, when a text arrived telling me that Si was gone. It didn’t matter that the news was already six days old or that we’d not bumped into each other for over two decades. His was such a strong and engaging personality. It hit me like we’d spoken only last month.

There will be a thousand other stories like mine from people who knew him better and for longer. But I doubt that their experience of him will vary greatly. Or the sense of loss.

I send my condolences to all of them, but especially to his family.

Eunice Blackmore, Foundations for Ministry and ordination training
It was through a "chance" meeting with Simon's Dad in hospital, days before he died in 2007, who spoke so passionately and enthusiastically about Simon and his ministry that inspired me to attend Foundations for Ministry as an independent. I had no idea it would change my life as it resulted in me becoming an Anglican and later training for ordination.

Throughout that journey Simon continually inspired and encouraged me. His enthusiasm for servant ministry was infectious. So much of what he taught and demonstrated has influenced my ministry. It reached and will continue to reach far beyond those who've had the privilege of knowing him.

I'm deeply saddened by his death and feel for his family and friends and surround them in prayer.

Jenny Gillies, Colleague in Diocese of Chester, then Simon was my tutor and remained a friend
Simon was kind, funny, clever and thoughtful — a natural problem-solver who always seemed to be there for everyone. He was inventive, had wonderfully high standards, and brought a real “can do” approach to whatever was in front of him. He worked incredibly hard and wanted the people around him to flourish and achieve their best.

We shared the connection of both having been curates at Bidston, although at different times, and we both played the guitar — Simon considerably more publicly, and rather better, than me! Over the years there were regular coffees too, always with plenty to talk about.

Simon gave a great deal of himself to his ministry and to other people. That generosity could sometimes be costly, but it was part of who he was.

I feel very fortunate to have worked alongside him and to have remained in touch afterwards. I will remember him with great affection and gratitude.

My thoughts and prayers are especially with his family, and with all those who loved him and are now having to live with such an enormous loss.

Bishop Chris Edmondson, All Saints Trustees, Chester Diocese and Liverpool Diocese
I was deeply saddened to read of Simon's death in this week's Church Times. When I was serving as Bishop of Bolton, for a number of years I chaired the All Saints Trustees. Through that, I greatly valued every contact I had with Simon, appreciating his care for Readers and Ordinands, as he supported them, both in their academic studies, but also pastorally. I experienced him to be a very warm and encouraging person, undergirded by what always felt to be a very real and authentic faith in Jesus.

After retiring from the Diocese of Manchester, in 2017, I had the privilege of leading the ordination retreat for the Diocese of Liverpool, and working with him on that, again saw his care for those about to be ordained, not least in bringing reassurance to those feeling especially nervous and inadequate.

My last meeting with Simon, though of course I didn't know at the time that it would be, was last summer. I was visiting Chester, and on making my way towards the Cathedral, I heard a familiar voice greeting me. We had a lovely few moments of conversation and catch up, on both more serious and lighter subjects. I treasure that memory along with many others, thanking God for a gifted, Godly and deeply compassionate man, and holding in my prayers his family and all those closest to Simon at this incredibly sad time. May the peace, comfort and hope of the Lord he loved and served so faithfully, be yours in full measure.

Anne Lawson, Chester Diocese
I first met Simon when he was curate at Bidston and I was discerning my calling. Our paths have crossed and re-crossed many, many times since then, most recently as members of the College of Canons.
I valued Simon's wisdom, his ability to listen and discern the nub of the problem and to work to find solutions, all with a good dose of humour.
Rest in peace, Simon. You will be missed more than words can say.

Cathie Higgins, Colleague
Above all, my experience of Simon was his kindness. I bumped into Simon on my first day back to work after my husband had died. If anyone else had given me a bear hug it would have been inappropriate, but Simon exuded kindness, reassurance and had great insight. He brought humour and lightness to the intensity of the discernment process; his encouragement drew out self belief and confidence when it was lacking. Simon was my DDO and a friend. I am heartbroken for his family and send my love and prayers. May he rest in everlasting peace.

Audrey Griffiths, Foundations for Ministry Course
Simon was someone who stood out in my memory. He was kind and encouraging to everyone on the course. He, as far as I was concerned, lived his faith. May his family and friends be surrounded by God's love at this very sad time.

Paul Wood, Called to Serve, Foundations for Ministry, Occasional Worship Leader courses
Simon was the first person to say hello to me when I walked into Called To Serve in May 2024. He was the kindest of people, always looking for people who like me, looked lost, but somehow knew they were in the right place. Every interaction I had with Simon was joyful, and I will never forget his joke on the OWL course, which happened to coincide with the World Cup Semi-final, where he promised us that the reason he couldn’t stay for the whole evening was in no way football related. Future ministry events in the diocese will surely miss his bold yet gentle presence.
Lord, hold his family, friends, and all who loved him close in their grief.
May he rest in peace, in the glory of his Saviour. Amen

Dot Gosling, trained in Chester Diocese, later Liverpool Diocese
Simon was always such an encourager and always had a smile and a laugh with us ordinands.
He preached so well that it made it easy to listen and learn.

Revd Sandra Jones, Liverpool Diocese
Simon was my Diocesan Director of Ordinands. My heartfelt sympathy to Simon's family. Simon was such an encouragement to me when I trained to be a Reader in Liverpool Diocese and then trained for ordination. He made learning fun and when he preached it made God's word come alive. May he rest in peace.

Anita and Gordon Faith
Simon was a colleague to my husband and my DDO after having been chaplain to the Readers when I was one, before applying for ordination. We both found him to be a caring mentor and someone who was easy to talk to. We will miss his gentle and perspective personality. Rest in peace and rise in glory 🙏✝️

Revd Andrew Turton, Liverpool Diocese
So sad to hear the news about Simon. I met him as I started my discernment journey. He was always encouraging in my own journey to ordination, in Liverpool Diocese, but left just as I started my Ordination training. A sad loss I'm sure for Chester Diocese, as well as to his family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with all whose lives he touched. May he rest in Peace and rise in glory.

Revd Catherine Johnson, trained as a Reader and then Ordination
It has been a real joy to know and work with Simon over the years. I have many fond memories of him and am so grateful for his enthusiasm, his patience, his generosity of spirit and his encouragement. I remember his storytelling - making a group of trainee Readers cry at his telling of the Rag Man and howl with laughter at Jesus' Day Off; his good humour when teaching and just his overwhelming kindness. My thanks to his family for sharing him with us all and my prayers for them as they grieve. Rest in peace, Simon, you were so loved and you will be so missed.

Revd Dr Janine Arnott, Colleague
Simon was a gift: kind, capable, generous, and warm-hearted. He brought joy and light to every occasion and enriched the lives of those around him. We have lost a true brother in Christ, and he will be deeply missed. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Revd Pauline Rowe, Colleague at Liverpool Diocese
I first met Simon during my training for ordination on the All Saints Mission and Ministry course. He was a tutor, a mentor and the person who "signed me off" to be ordained in June 2013. Simon was kind, caring, encouraging, a very good listener in times of doubts or concerns. He taught in a way that was easy to understand even for me who had not been in a classroom for 35 years. After my ordination as SSM I continued to see Simon as we both worked in the offices at Liverpool Diocese until 2016 when I became a stipendiary minister. I will always remember Simon as a very supportive person to each and everyone of us who studied on the course. Our lives have been enriched by his presence, his hard work in teaching us, his gift of listening and encouraging as we all grew in God's call to serve.
I am deeply saddened by his death, it is such a great loss.

Judy, St Mark's Worship Team
Deeply saddened by Simon’s passing. I constantly look where Simon would be standing to play his guitar and the realisation that he will no longer be there fills me with great sadness. He was such a talented musician. I also dog sat for him on several occasions. In the words of Luke Skywalker from Star Wars which Simon was great fan “No one has really gone.” You will live on in our hearts and fond memories Simon.

Rob Green, Co-Facilitator Reader Training with Simon in the early 2000s
Simon was the kindest, loveliest and most supportive colleague and it was a joy to work with him. He had so many gifts but was also deeply humble. I know that I am one of very, very many people whose lives were touched by his life and ministry. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Tad Baranski, Colleague at ICL/Fujitsu in the 1990s
At that time, in the 1990s Simon and I became good friends. Our faith in Jesus kept us sane in a hard and demanding commercial environment. Simon was, of course, great at his job. Frankly Simon would have been a huge success at anything he chose to do in life.

Simon and I often chatted about his impending response to a clear call from God to enter full time Christian ministry. I remember him leaving to study in Oxford with sadness, I knew I would miss him dearly, but also delighted that he would start a journey of serving his heavenly Father and all those who also loved him. Thankfully we managed to meet up a number of times during his training.

Simon was, of course, very intelligent, passionate, caring, gracious, generous, amusing, quick witted, giving, selfless, hard working. His infectious smile (was he ever without a smile that lit up a room and everyone in it?), honesty and skill in listening are some of his gifts I will remember always. I will never meet a man like him again, and our time together is a clear highlight in my life. There is nobody I would ever have trusted more.

Jesus, I am sure, boasted about Simon to his father: Matthew 10:32 "Everyone who acknowledges me before others I will acknowledge before my heavenly Father.". Simon always told others about Jesus. Now, Simon can see the Saviour he served faithfully, face to face. Thank you Simon for who you were.

Revd Aled Seago, Diocesan Colleague, part of Ministry Committee
I first met Simon as part of the 'First Base' transition to first incumbency course, and then after joining the Diocesan Synod ministry committee I was able to work alongside him a bit more. He was always a joy and an encouragement to chat to. I do, and will, miss him greatly.

Revd Elaine Chegwin Hall, Canon Emeritus at Chester Cathedral worked with Simon over the years in various roles, more recently in the ministry team as convenor for deliverance ministry
Simon was engaging, empowering and encouraging. He enabled people to believe in themselves and to develop their God given gifts. I loved him for the joy that he brought when entering any room, for his careful ability to listen and value people's contributions and for the difference he made in my life and in the lives of many others. We are truly blessed to have known him. I am desperately sad to hear of his passing and have been holding his family and his colleagues in prayer.

Revd Jo Pemberton, Colleague who Simon supported through training and curacy
I will always value Simon's wisdom, encouragement and Christian friendship. As my mentor there is a huge hole in my life and those who he helped through their Christian journey. I pray for his family, friends and colleagues. For Simon's soul to rest in eternal peace. Amen

Jeff Jerram, Occasional Worship Leader
Simon was involved in my OWL course where I found him to be enthusiastic, engaging and informative. I subsequently led worship where Simon presided at Holy Communion. I will always remember a verse from Scripture Colossians 3 v17 because of a session that Simon ran at Foxhill. He was a charismatic gentleman and he will be missed.

Roy Edward, OWLs Course Spring 2026, Heswall PWA Spring 2025
Simon was a sparkling, kind, gentle, wise and funny man. Though I knew him only for a short time he left an indelible mark. We are all the poorer for his sudden passing.

Isobel Chetwood, Occasional Worship Leader
So saddened to hear of the death of Simon. He was inspirational in his delivery of the OWLS course mixing teaching with humour, warm encouragement and spiritual guidance. Rest in peace and rise in glory.

Anne Samuels, parishioner in Simon's deanery in the 1990s and throughout Simon's career
I am tremendously grateful for Simon's honesty and open-ness, humility, heartfelt commitment, and sense of humour. He has been so generous with his wonderful communication skills and has been an inspiring trainer, giving us all a sense of our worth and enabling us to discern our own gifts and see how best to use them in the service of Christ. I have felt great affection for him and shall aways remember his 'jolly' voice, full of laughter and encouragement. I share the grief and loss of so many and feel deeply for all who have been closest.

Lee Longden, Former Colleague (All Saints)
My all abiding memory of Simon was his sheer vibrancy - it’s no coincidence that some of us affectionately and irreverently referred to him as Tigger when his presence was a welcome antidote to our occasional cynicism. I was very fond of Simon, despite the bad jokes(!). I loved the way he constantly tried to see the best in people (even when they didn’t deserve it or had let him down), tried to point to the best in the Church (even when it didn’t deserve it or had let him down), loved, encouraged and fought for his students (especially those who were struggling), and was entirely trustworthy, conscientious and reliable. I am desperately sad that life proved too great a struggle for a precious soul, and send my heartfelt love and condolences to his family and close friends. For some of us, we mourn his loss and think ‘there but for the grace of God go we’. Rest well, good and faithful friend and dearly loved child of God.

Karl Williams, Worked for Simon in the Discernment Team
Simon was one of my tutors through Reader training, training for ordained ministry and post ordination training. I worked for him as part of the discernment team, and with the delivery of the OWL courses. I have always been in awe of his incredible depth of knowledge and his great sense of humour and quick wit. It was a real privilege to work with him, and he will be so sadly missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family and those who have worked with him.
Rest in Peace and rise in glory.
Your brother in Christ.
Karl

Revd Canon Anne Edwards, Coordinating Chaplain Emmanuel Theological College
So sorry to hear of Simon's death. It was both a pleasure and a privilege to work with him in his many different roles over 25 years. His humour, wisdom and encouragement were so much appreciated by many. Praying for all his family, friends and colleagues.

Yorke Menzies, Foundations for Ministry
God’s love shone through Simon. He was a faithful servant and discipled many. I shall treasure the memory of our final Agape meal. I am praying for God’s peace and comfort for all his family, friends and colleagues. What a blessing Simon was and how privileged we are to have known him.

Alison,
Love and prayers for all who are affected by this tragic death.

Revd Canon Dr Judy Hunt, Former Diocesan Director of Ministry and Mission and Colleague

Simon was a wonderful colleague and a brilliant teacher / trainer for fellow disciples of Christ – in his skill, in his commitment and in the way he was concerned for those with whom he was in contact.

I first came across Simon in the mid 1990’s when we were both tutors on the Diocesan Reader Training Course. Simon taught Year 2 (Church History) and I followed on in Year 3 (Mission, Ethics and Worship). It is a tribute to Simon that the members of the group had always been encouraged and enthused during Year 2!

At the beginning of 2003, I became Director of Ministry and we were soon advertising for a Ministry Development Officer – Simon applied and was clearly the best person for that post. At the time, I was so pleased that he was appointed and my gratitude to him and for him grew over the years that we worked closely together.

Team work was key to developing support for ministry (lay and ordained) in the Diocese, as we aimed to listen carefully to God and to other people. We formed a team that broadened out to encompass others – both paid and volunteer staff. Simon was an encourager to people in and beyond this team. He was kind, loyal, humorous and a pleasure to work with.

Simon’s role as Ministry Development Officer coincided with a time of massive upheaval in the world of theological education and ministerial training within the Church of England. He always had a ‘can-do’ attitude, which I appreciated, in terms of trying to help individuals rather than putting a system in place that all had to fit into, no matter what their previous experience or their current situation. The work that Simon did with Ruth Ackroyd and others in the University of Chester was truly ground-breaking. Operating in this field at such a time was by no means easy, although it could be exciting. I cannot think of anyone who would have been a better colleague during this era.

Simon and his ministry became a channel through which God touched so many lives – hundreds over the years – in a positive and fruitful way.

In more recent times, following my retirement from full-time ministry and a move back into the Diocese, Simon and I had met on several occasions and begun to do some work together once again. I shall miss him so very much – but in expressing this, I am aware that loss I feel is so very much more keenly and deeply experienced by his family. They, and also colleagues of Simon in more recent years, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Simon – thank you for being such a loyal friend and valued colleague.

I am using this prayer:
Simon
You shared your life with us:
God give his eternal life to you.
You gave your love to us:
God give his deep love to you.
You gave your time to us:
God give his eternity to you.
You gave your light to us:
God give everlasting light to you.
Go upon your journey, dear one,
to be surrounded by Christ’s love and light
in his life eternal. Amen.

David Hermitt, Diocese of Chester
Simon always had a smile and was willing to share a joke. His wisdom, kindness and compassion will be missed. My prayers are with his family and close friends. May he rest in peace.

Alan Hewitt, Occasional Worship Leader
I am shocked at the news. Through his ministry and guidance on the OWLS course I know helped me a great deal.

Jeremy Maynard, Occasional Worship Leader (OWL)
Simon was the Lecturer on my recent OWL Course. Over a period of four weeks he coaxed us into becoming OWL's and his frequent and amusing anecdotes took all the stuffiness out of what could be regarded as a rather stiff academic exercise. His lightheartedness made the learning process highly enjoyable, uplifting, and also spiritual. He will be sorely missed, may he RIP, God Bless his memory.

Liz Roberts, Trained as an ordinand when Simon was Diocesan Director of Ordinands at Liverpool Diocese
Simon was such a special human being: kind, thoughtful, caring, encouraging and motivating. When I went to my Bishops' Panel, a card from Simon and Debbie Ellison was awaiting me: typical of both of them. And when I was accepted, he sought me out, gave me a huge hug and promised to pray for me. So typical of him! I shall miss his humour, the lightning wit of the man, and his deep devotion to God. May he rest in peace and rise to glory.

Julie Rigby, Lay Reader
Simon you were a lovely man who knew when to laugh with you and cry with you. You were more than a mentor you were my friend. I know that you are in heaven and my heart goes out to your family and loved ones at this sad time.

Katharine Emery, Occasional Worship Leader
Such a shock to hear of Simon's passing, my heart goes out to his family and friends. I only met him a few times as he lead the Occasional Worship Leaders Course I attended. I very much enjoyed the course and was struck by his enthusiasm and encouragement. He was a brilliant teacher, very personable and engaging. He will be greatly missed by many.

David Herbert, Former Colleague
How sad. Simon was a great source of encouragement for me as I moved into a new phase of ministry supporting continuing ministerial development. I know that so many will have flourished as a result of his encouragement and his outstanding teaching ability. He helped lay foundations for ministry for hundreds of people - with his voice coming across loud and clear in all the course materials. My prayers are with his family and his close colleagues at Church House.

Dimitri Paul Savvides, Licensed Lay Minister
Simon was so personable and relaxed that he immediately put you at your ease. He was a great encouragement and his calm reassurance persuaded the 'Chester 8' to change to Emmanuel TC for our final year of LLM training in 2023.

Revd Ian Enticott, worked with Simon on Foundations for Ministry 2002-2010
Simon was always upbeat and infectiously cheerful. He was a great encourager and it was a delight to work alongside him teaching the Foundations for Ministry course and re-shaping some of the modules. He was a special friend and I will miss him greatly.

Revd Ron Iveson, Colleague
Dear, dear Simon, your smile, warmth, winsomeness, passionate faith, deep erudition, musicality, friendliness, breadth of concern and ability to engage all folks from just everywhere are just some of the memories which I will hold dearly but in the end you were Simon ...loved, respected and cherished deeply ... I'll miss you.

Mike Holt, Reader/Licensed Lay Minister
Deeply saddened to hear about Simon’s death. Simon gave me a second opportunity to train as a reader, and in doing so, I had the full college experience, through Emmanuel Theological College. On licensing day, last October, Simon took time out to walk and chat with me as I collected my reader's scarf in preparation for the Bishop's charge. It feels like personal family loss, a fellow brother in Christ. Rest in peace, Simon

Revd Dr Tim Robinson, Lay Reader
Rest in peace Simon. You were an inspirational teacher, and a good friend over the last 20 plus years, always full of enthusiasm and positivity.

Aly Tuft, Occasional Worship Leader
I am so sorry to hear about the death of Simon.
He was an encourager and had a wonderful personality and sense of humour..
Thank you for being part of my OWLs journey
R.I.P Simon 🙏